Saturday, February 28, 2009

Just an update....

Best buy... We only got 20% waiver of that damn bitch's bill.........

Which means we gotta pay...
$685.25
Karma bitch...karma...............
@#$%#$@^%@%$#@%@

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

First things First........

SORRY CHERIE! this blog entry is
5 days too late! =P
But its here!

Anyways, this is gonna be a looooonnnnnngggggg entry, cause its such a long story, and there are so many tiny details that will might get left out, i'm not so angry anymore, just wish we had the opportunity to send her to jail, to have her interrogated and to find out what more she's done. I swear, Karma's gonna come round and stab you in the back and you wouldn't know it bitch.

So lets see how to start this....

Ok... meet my friend... =) My "Save up for a MINI Cabriolet fund."

This little friend of mine, help me catch my EX-maid's (lets call her....BITCH) mischievous ways...
Here's how the story went....

At the end of every week, whatever coins i had left in my wallet, i'd put into this tiny little coin container...
So after about 2 weeks, i decided to count my "treasure". So i counted all 5c, 10c, 20c, 50c, and $1 coins. I had about...$15 worth...

A few weeks later, this ritual of mine continued, and about a month later i decided to count again...$16??!?!?!?!? ONLY???? "that's odd".... so i let it go and simply assumed that since they are of so many denominations, i just must have counted wrongly the first time, and i must have forgotten how much i really had... So i thot i'd remove all the small denominations, and keep it to 50c and $1 coins.

I counted...$17...

So again... this time abt 2 weeks later i counted... i had lesser... This time i was getting suspicious... I thought to myself "This is really odd... i can't be that bad at remembering numbers...wat's more...it's MONEY!!! Someone's been taking my $$$$$ and there can only be one person..."

So i told my mum about it and she said "Tts odd, daddy said he's been missing his $1 coins frm his collection downstairs too... why don't u put an even number inside, so that its easier to remember." And so i did...

So a week later, Steph (who knows what has been going on asked me.) "Eh, u check your coin collection yet anot?" and i replied "Oh yeah hoh... i forgot..."

so after work i got home, the moment i picked it up, i knew that there were coins missing and i was SOOOoooOOOOoooOOOO sure of it... it was way too light...
$13.50!!! Waht an ODDD number!!

My suspicions were true... but i had no evidence...
So i told mum and dad, and dad was angry cause now he was sure he wasn't imagining his little $1 coins floating away and disappearing into thin air.

So mum plotted a plan, "Tomorrow i'm cooking curry, I'll ask her to go outside to buy bread for our party, we'll check her belongings then to see if we find your coins..." (Please keep in mind, we nvr rummage through other pple's belongings, and nvr ever have with our past maids.)

And so we did, she went to buy bread, we went to look through her things... mum said to me before we opened her things "Bring your camera, take a picture if we find the coins... lets do it quick and neat so she won't know."

The first drawer we opened, we flipped through her clothes, nothing, but there was a little container I had given her. (We always give her things, when i clear my cupboard, i often give her clothes, i've even given her my old handbags that i don't want. my family treats her very well, we buy her lunch/dinner, and mum gave her $50 bucks for ang pao even...okokok...back to the story...)

So we opened it, and what did we find...???? not the coins.... but.... MY NINTENDO DS!!!!!!!

Mum: "wait a min, that looks familiar, is that your game???"

Me: "OMG!!!! YES IT IS!!!! OMG OMG!!! WTH!!!

Mum: "Faster take picture faster take faster faster..."

Me: Making hand gestures and pointing to the game "Omg omgomg..wth.... i just asked her last week if she'd seen it and she didn't!! she lied......" and i went on blabbering.

Mum whacked me inthe arm: "HAHAHA! FASTER TAKE!!!!"

I suddenly felt the blood rush through my head... this was the very Nintendo Ds that i had asked that bitch exactly a week ago when she was helping me with cleaning up my room as i had bought a new cupboard set.
Me: "Wati (aka bitch), have you seen my game set, the grey one that can open up? you know tt one u've seen me playing before that uses these games (i held up the game catridge"

Bitch: "No Valerie, i nvr see also, very long i nvr see there already."

FUCKING BITCH LIED STRAIGHT TO MY FACE!

ok so we continued with 2nd drawer. nothing.

come the third, we flipped over a shirt and what did we find????

Me: "THAT'S MY HEELS!!!"

Mum: "Faster take picture again faster..."

Me: "MUM! i can't believe it i just saw this in my cupboard on thursday, only 2 days ago! and now its here!!"
Mum: "faster!! faster faster...hahaha..faster..."

Me: "omg! why did she take it?? wait! she's going off tmr tts y! wth!!! where she think she's going with them...she wanna die ah..."

Mum: "TAKE!!! hahaha! TAKE!!! ask u take photo you only talk and talk.."

So we finally closed up, put everything back in place and waited...
Throughout the morning, i told my mum i cannot stand having her in the house anymore. "I cannot have her in the hse... i cannot stare at her in the face anymore. those things may not be monetary things, but they're mine, she took them wout asking, and i've been nothing but nice to her the whole 1 yr she's been here, i've joked with her, talked to her, been nice to her, and this is wat she does. if u and daddy don't do anything abt it i'm confronting her NOW."

So plans were made, phone calls were made. i had one last plan to catch her taking my money cos i was so sure... i told mum infront of the bitch "Let's go out for lunch mum"
And before chris, mum and i left the hse, i switched on my computer camera, and recorded my room... During this time, we went to the agent, told her the story, and set a time for their driver to come get her.

When i got home, nothing...

So the driver came at 2.30pm sharp, as expected...
In the dining room, mum called her out, and asked her in front of the driver: "Did you take Valerie's money?"

Bitch (looking confused): "no mum, i dunno what you are talking abt."

Me: "You still dare lie! you take just say!"

Bitch: "I dunno wat money valerie."

Mum: "Fine, did you take Valerie's shoes??"

Bitch: "No i dunno what you are talking about."
Me: from across the hall: "YOU DARE TO SAY NO!!!!!"
Bitch (looking at my mum): "Yes, i ONLY BORROW... want to use tomorrow when go off."

Mum: "That's good enough, you go behind throw all your things on the floor, i want to wathc you pack and make sure you haven't taken more things..."

More things? what else could she take? nothing i hope... WRONG! we found more........

1) My heels

2) My DVDs and CDs
This shows she's gone through my things, because these are in their boxes, and these DVD and CD cases are put into boxes, that are shelved.

3) 4 Polaroid pictures taken in MY ROOM
FUCK man, this pissed me off so much cos i know she's taken more than 4 cos i had no more film in my Polaroid, and i had recently changed the Film Catridge. Stupid bitch take of herself in MY room!
Also, my polaroid camera is neatly tucked away on a shelve.
4) Our missing extra SIM card
This SIM card was used by our previous maids, signed up by my mum for them once they've hit about a year working with us.
This was recently passed to my cousin in November when he was staying over at my place for his use cos his line got cancelled. When he left, mum remembered keeping it n her room, in a drawer. When she had received the Dec bill of $50++ and January bill which was $70++ she thought nothing of it, cos she had forgotten that she kept it and thot it was my cousin using it so didn't bother.
Soon did she realize that it was the missing SIM card when we tested it and found it was ours.


5) My perfume
This like all my other things, are shelved and put together. This is put together with my collection of fragrances. Yet again, another sign of her snooping around my things. 6) some of my cosmetics
Some were given by mum, some were mine and i'm sure of it cos i put them all in my toilet cabinet. and i noticed some were missing.
7) My Ninetendo DS and 4 games
So when she throw everything out onto the floor, when this dropped out, she quickly grabbed it and slide it beside her on the floor while she was squatting.
Unfortunately for her, mum and i were quick to see it.
Me: "Did you see wat she just did?!?!?"

Mum: "Yeah!! u still dare to hide something tt's not yrs?!?! where'd u get it from?"

Bitch just looked down: "Mine mam.."
Me: "WHAT!?!?!?!"
Mum: "Stop lying ah!"

Bitch: "I only borrow from Valerie room."

Me: "If you borrowed then why tt day when i asked you u say u nvr see before dunno wat i'm talking abt?!?!?!"

Also, these games were only recently taken from my room because when we were clearing my room and i had asked her the question. i was at that same time, sorting out my games, and they were all placed into their individual boxes all except for one which as found in the console itself.

8) Our old Nokia Phone.
This phone is kept in a dry box, that's is in a corner of a room.
So she went snooping arnd, and decided to take it.
Her reason, "i see it there so long, no one take so i take."
9) A scented candle which is under our altar.
Like that also want to steal.. go IKEA la! hahaha!10) Binder for mum's client to use.
I odn't have a picture of this, but this was found hidden in the corner of her cupboard. It had gone missing after mum kept it in the art room which is also her bedroom. In case u're wondering, mum's a reflexologist and does alot of Post Natal reflexology, so the binder was bought for a client.

When questioned why she took all these things?
"I see them there, 2 days no one touch, so i take cause you don't want." OR "I only borrow."
Come on la! if really borrow, why the need to hide.
Mind you, from the start, the moment they step in our hse, we alwasy tell them. "If u take soemthing without permission, its stealing. if u want to borrow soemthing, ask us."

So after she left, we went through all the things in her area to see if she's hidden anything...
And we found MORE...

1) Coins (and what's left of the coins she's stolen)
We are Soooo sure, these aren't hers...
Chris has a habit of sometimes not taking out his coins from his pocket, and my mum noticed a few times that her coins or notes in her pockets in clothes tt have gone into the wash, have not come back.


3) Box of Jewellery
When she was packing, she stood up to head to the toilet. so i followed her in case she was up to no good. she went in. took a pair of shorts and walked out as i watched her.
Little did we know, that her intentions was probably to take these with her but couldn't cos i was watching.
Mum found this after she left, and was clearing the toilet.
In it, my ring, mum's diamond ring, and a gold chain.

so we thought that the nightmare had ended the day she got sent back to the agent, till we started to realize, things were really missing.

Dad has a little glass container with ALL his $1 coins collection. at least $300 bucks worth... This container is hidden in a cupboard in our room, in a drawer, right inside, hidden from things... guess what... it's missing!!! Mind you for the whole yr few months she's been with us, she has nvr once been asked to open our cupboards to put our clothes in. She's only asked to leave them on our beds, and we'll put them in ourselves...

My god! imagine the times she's been looking through our things wout us knowing?

On top of this, we have this really old peanut shaped coin bank that's really heavy, made of ceramic and with coins inside, u'd need both hands to pick it up. this is in my mum's room.

So the day after she was sent home, mum was doing the house work. and she thot she'd lift it up to clean.....*drum roll* she lifted it up...with 1 hand! and it was her left hand...she FREAKED!

She went down to agent to question her. she denied! the day she was to fly off and return home, in the car, the agent asked her one more time if she took the money mum asked abt... she said "yes".....................F****** BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So 2 weeks later, and recovering from the drama that happened. a family first, wat's more we were really nice with her. we thought THAT WAS THE END OF THE DRAMA! TILL.....

Ok...remember the SIM card that we found? yeah... guess what, the February bill came...

$856.49


My mum was so furious that day, she couldn't sleep tt nite. So hopefully, with the police report that we made to blacklist her from ever stepping into singapore again, SingTel will be kind enought to wave the bill...

To think that was it, our neighbours maid told us that she opened the back gate for a bangalah worker before, but wasn't sure if he entered the hse.

She also said that whenever no one was home, she'd go out. Almost everyday she'd go out. sometimes to the playground to meet men. WHORE!

She also told the next door maid that at night, she drinks in the room... When i looked at mum and said "Where she get her beer from sia?!" Mum replied with a "Where do you think you money goes, and hey... pple go out everyday lei!"

When we looked through her hp to make sure she doesn't have our numbers in it, we saw her smses from her bf, who she only met once, scolding her, telling her to beg for her job back, and scolding her for being such a bad worker and for being bad to her employers. Not listening to them, they treat you so well why u still do these things to them, i tell you don't do already.telling her things like "I told you not to do such things, you don't listen." and saying things like "When u tell me not to talk to other girls, but when u meet guys u everyone also talk to them" WAHAHAHA! NUTS!

i must say, he's a very sensible man... too bad he found a psycho...

I guess all these anger my family is feeling is becuase we have been very nice to her. By rule from agent, they aren't allowed phone calls, hps and leave. But we always let them call home after 2 days to tell their parents they're safe in singapore, we let them have hps, and we give them leave after a few months because they aren't animals to be jailed up, they still are humans...

My mum even helps them save their pay so tt they have enough to send home. Our past maids who have been with us for 6 yrs at least, have saved up enough to go home, buy a plot of land, build a hse, and get married.

We're currently having her diary that we gave her to use to write in translated by my mum's client's maid. we wanna know what rubbish she's done that we don't know... tsk tsk... so far all we know is she has ALOT of men's names in it... hahaha!

So we claimed from her the $70++ of phone bills she racked up, i claimed for my $6 she admitted to stealing from me, and the polaroids shes took of herself, cos those things aren't cheap, $30++ for the binder that she had opened from the box cause we can't sell it since its out of the box. We claimed for more things, but can't remember wat it was...

Too bad the bill didn't come earlier, if not she'd have gne straight to the police..shucks... Well, if it wasn't for my "fren" aka "MINI Cabriolet Fund" who knows what more damage she'd have done within this 1 month till it came... tsk tsk tsk...

Karma's a bitch BITCH. It's gonna come round, and STAB you in the back... just you wait and see...

P.S: i told you this was gonna be long...